I know that's a fairly common view for women to have, but the more I think about it, the more I think that's the same reason I'm drawn to the less feminine, more masculine female characters (Ryuunosuke, Kei, Revy <3). They behave in a way which I'm more comfortable with and can understand. That is, a more straightforward way, unlike most women.Rui said:I suppose for me as a woman, less broadly masculine men of all flavours (whether really a cross dressing woman, simply effeminate in the way they act or just extremely openly homosexual but otherwise traditionally "manly" in other respects) just come across as less "threatening"; illogical sometimes but it often makes it feel as though they might be easier for me to relate to or be without the hidden agenda a lot of overtly straight males tend to have when speaking to a woman. Of course once you get to know them there's a complete spectrum of personalities involved no matter how a person dresses, acts or looks. It's just an interesting quirk which tends to break down some of the completely unnecessary barriers between the genders which our society likes to encourage.
ayase said:Not to be sexist, but there are certain female attitudes I not only dislike but outright refuse to make any time for. I just groan and leave the room for example any time a television programme encounters a "relationship trouble" segment. Either you love each other or you don't - Get On With It!* Not that I blame the majority of either gender for behaving the way they do - that, as you say, is society's fault. And it's not to say I don't dislike a lot of predominant male attitudes too, but they bother me less as male companionship means far less to me than the female kind.
Otaku-san said:o lolx Amray check out my custom title
tank u plox
Amray said:Haha, no it is a good title! All I can do is wait until my greatest heroine, Akira Kogami, is 16. She has always been my favourite. Actually, no, I'll have her now. But I promise not to do anything illegal until she is the right age.
Rui said:ayase said:Not to be sexist, but there are certain female attitudes I not only dislike but outright refuse to make any time for. I just groan and leave the room for example any time a television programme encounters a "relationship trouble" segment. Either you love each other or you don't - Get On With It!* Not that I blame the majority of either gender for behaving the way they do - that, as you say, is society's fault. And it's not to say I don't dislike a lot of predominant male attitudes too, but they bother me less as male companionship means far less to me than the female kind.
Agree there. Whenever I get to any situation where the entire drama would be instantly resolved by the two people actually talking *to* one another as respected equals but instead drags on through silly gender cliches I just want to scream. I get along much better with people who are a bit fuzzy about their gender roles - people who try too hard to act like our culturally stereotypical men or stereotypical women end up being way too confusing.
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I suppose at other times it could be a guilty bit of Schadenfreude to eavesdrop, but early in the morning I wouldn't be able to tolerate it very much.Derfel said:And yes, I am talking from experience. It is pure pleasure to listen to the retards next door when you have school in the morning.
Otaku-san said:Arrr man she scares the crap outta me, not my type of loli. Hazuki i could deal with though
Zin5ki said:I suppose at other times it could be a guilty bit of Schadenfreude to eavesdrop, but early in the morning I wouldn't be able to tolerate it very much.Derfel said:And yes, I am talking from experience. It is pure pleasure to listen to the retards next door when you have school in the morning.
(Albeit unwillingly, I myself have heard my current neighbours interacting in a somewhat different manner...)
Derfel said:Oh yes, I'm 19 now, 1 more year and I'll stop being a 'teen'. How I hate that word... Amn't I amazing?
Tell me about it. It should now be complulsory for delivery drivers to have Sat-Nav. It's not so bad now I live in town but when I lived out in the countryside it was terrible:Derfel said:Thank you, thank you. A bit of happiness I could indeed appreciate. Bloody UPS (arrgghh) lied about my Photoshop delivery for the second time (said I couldn't sign/wasn't home, when I was sitting here all along), Royal Mail (or their lackey Parcelfarce) didn't deliver the package my parents sent. I decided I hate logistics. I want to destroy it.
ayase said:Tell me about it. It should now be complulsory for delivery drivers to have Sat-Nav. It's not so bad now I live in town but when I lived out in the countryside it was terrible:Derfel said:Thank you, thank you. A bit of happiness I could indeed appreciate. Bloody UPS (arrgghh) lied about my Photoshop delivery for the second time (said I couldn't sign/wasn't home, when I was sitting here all along), Royal Mail (or their lackey Parcelfarce) didn't deliver the package my parents sent. I decided I hate logistics. I want to destroy it.
*ring ring*
"Hi, I'm calling from UPS, I've got a delivery here for you. Where abouts are you?"
"Well, I'm where it says on your delivery address - Where are you?"
"Er, I've just gone through such-and-such-village."
"On which road in which direction..?"
(Discussion continues to cover distinguishing trees, fields, walls, sheep etc...)
Happy birthday by the way...
ayase said:Tell me about it. It should now be complulsory for delivery drivers to have Sat-Nav. It's not so bad now I live in town but when I lived out in the countryside it was terrible:Derfel said:Thank you, thank you. A bit of happiness I could indeed appreciate. Bloody UPS (arrgghh) lied about my Photoshop delivery for the second time (said I couldn't sign/wasn't home, when I was sitting here all along), Royal Mail (or their lackey Parcelfarce) didn't deliver the package my parents sent. I decided I hate logistics. I want to destroy it.
*ring ring*
"Hi, I'm calling from UPS, I've got a delivery here for you. Where abouts are you?"
"Well, I'm where it says on your delivery address - Where are you?"
"Er, I've just gone through such-and-such-village."
"On which road in which direction..?"
(Discussion continues to cover distinguishing trees, fields, walls, sheep etc...)
Happy birthday by the way...
Spyro201 said:Only problem is where I live, SatNav sends them up the road even though it's closed and they refuse to belive us. This also happens the other way, people try to use a road thats not there.
We have the same country problems :lol: