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@~AyaMachi~ i also like my heritage sites, I generally leave them as incorporations into holidays or days out rather than as a specific event. Although I can see the appeal of going to one taking a blanket and just having a bit of a snuggle whilst you’re there. What’s the most recent site you went to? For me it’s Whitby abbey as we had a holiday close by.
I am also similar in the typical romantic gifts, I’m not a big giver of flowers (can count the times I’ve bought my partner some on one hand) chocolate on the other hand, we both like chocolate so I’m more liable to buy that albeit just going to Poundland and loading a basket up with whatever I can find or popping around the local shop. It’s for snacking when we fancy some so no need for exorbitantly priced stuff.
Oh Christ yeah, we went out to quite a few different places. He (the ex) bought us National Trust membership for Christmas, so we could just take off one weekend and basically just...pick a site! Honestly I can't remember the most recent place I've been to; it probably was Bodnant Gardens a couple of years back - I don't have a car right now so I tend not to bother going far afield (I know I can use public transport but I'd rather wait until I can get a set of wheels if I'm honest). There's a f**kton of Castles here in Wales too that I haven't even been to! SHOCKER! Just Googled Whitbey Abbey - looks grand dude can't beat a bit of old monastic history
I do like flowers, but honestly, I prefer them in the garden. I remember one time, ex #4 had a bunch of roses (and some other random foliage) delivered to me once. My Mum was like, "Oh my, someone's lucky!" Don't get me wrong, they were lovely, but the gesture to me seemed a bit...OTT! I think he was a proper, "old fashioned" romancer, and it's just not me! I mean, this guy was one for writing verses as well, and again, it's a sweet gesture for someone who actually likes that stuff, but it made me
I just don't believe it needs to be an expensive affair. You're celebrating the length of time you've loved one another, and the commitment you show to one another, and I'd rather show that in cuddles and stuff! Plus they're free of charge!
At least, I hope they are. Unless @Neil.T's been keeping tabs and is charging me extortionate amounts. I'll end up with a huge bill!
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