To be honest I can completely understand the 'one sided' conversation stuff. I am an incredibly quiet person at the best of times and me and Teapot have quite different hobbies (although there is certainly overlap!), so coupled with the fact he talks a lot I do tend to listen and just interject now and then. Which is fine and I actually like it like that! Sometimes I get super chatty about my hobbies and he listens or we have more of a back and forth and that's fine. It means he gets to talk about computer parts I don't remotely understand and I can talk about my favourite fluffy romance manga of the week and we're both happy.
I think when we first started dating Teapot used to worry about how quiet I was, but at we spent more time together he realised that it's just how I am and also I become a little more talkative myself.
On the topic of romantic gestures earlier - as Teapot outed me, I am a huge sop for romantic gestures but I also don't expect them because I know he doesn't care. We have a back and forth every year on valentines and anniversary about if we're getting a card/gift and most valentines he says he doesn't care and then buys me some sweets anyway! >_< Even this year a miscommunication almost led to us not exchanging gifts for our anniversary because he thought I didn't want to (mostly because I was making a fuss about he usually doesn't mind and that came across as me not wanting too as well or something).
I think when we first started dating Teapot used to worry about how quiet I was, but at we spent more time together he realised that it's just how I am and also I become a little more talkative myself.
On the topic of romantic gestures earlier - as Teapot outed me, I am a huge sop for romantic gestures but I also don't expect them because I know he doesn't care. We have a back and forth every year on valentines and anniversary about if we're getting a card/gift and most valentines he says he doesn't care and then buys me some sweets anyway! >_< Even this year a miscommunication almost led to us not exchanging gifts for our anniversary because he thought I didn't want to (mostly because I was making a fuss about he usually doesn't mind and that came across as me not wanting too as well or something).