Joshawott said:
@Chaz - I typically never let my employers know that I am even considering employment elsewhere, just in case it sours relations or anything like that. When I've had interviews for other places, I've arranged for them to be on my day's off. I did however, recently accidentally spill in an email to my manager discussing my desire for reduced hours that I am still looking into a starting a career in the media industry. My manager's tone when I discussed the email with him wasn't the best, so maybe I'd advise against so?
I agree with that, and from my perspective, it's not even their business if I'm looking for other opportunities. Yes, they may not be happy with that option if they found out, but I don't make long-lasting friendships with people at work, as that being one of my reasons. Business is business, and I don't try to mix it with my personal lifestyle.
@msgeek:
I suppose that could be a reputable theory, as much as I hate round-about thinking that these strategies provide. They need to know that I'm the person they can trust, but I feel like if you ask that question to someone who has been looking for a new job for 6 months+, it doesn't support ideas that they're necessarily hating something and trying to escape something. They, just like someone who has just started looking, might be trying to find the next level of progression (hours, wage/salary, climbing-the-ladder etc.) If they want to know how well I get on with them, why not ask me the direct question of "Have you had any issues with your current employer?" or "Is there something you didn't like about your last employment?" And if they want the other side of the story, all they needed to do was contact them via reference. Only you can make the decision on whether you trust that person or not. And I prefer a direct approach to things, so even if I'm not my boss' closest pal or so - I don't think that means I should stay if I can get a better opportunity. I really don't know much about them, but I can still treat them with as much respect as I would anyone else.
But I should take your advice and try to add content that may support myself in such cases, rather than a simple:
"Does your employer know you're looking for a job?"
"Not really."
On another note, Happy belated b-day NGrav. Enjoy spending the money as much as you did getting it.