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Oh my...This is all well and good, but if that celebrity was Lorraine Kelly.....well....
There's only one Dundonian who'll do for me I'm afraid!
Oh my...This is all well and good, but if that celebrity was Lorraine Kelly.....well....
She could still shove it!This is all well and good, but if that celebrity was Lorraine Kelly.....well....
Oh my God I giggled!She could still shove it!
Someone told me they were pansexual not long ago and I thought it had something to do with fishI'm 30 and all these s*xual orientations confuse me though lol.
I think it's important to remember that people's brains are balanced differently between their sexual and emotional needs & desires.
You might be all over each other constantly at first but that does subside after a year or so when the initial reinforcement chemicals that twist your brain into a loved up emotional mess early on begin to die down and you suddenly find yourself feeling different and looking at your partner differently. In my opinion it's only after that happens that a relationship really begins and you find out if you really do love someone beyond that physical desire.
I've discussed the whole looking at other people etc at length with my partner and I think it's good that we are comfortable enough with each other to point out when someone is attractive and then feign a bit of wounded pride, it's a bonding exercise as much as anything in the vein of: "That guy/girl is hot........ but I'd still rather be with you." A little jealousy helps keeps bonds strong in my experience as it brings you closer as well so it's not just a negative emotion.
I'm kind of the same, as @Adam-M pointed out, I don't get what pansexual really is either, I think I have heard before that they just see what happens whether they are with men or women, but that's just bisexual without a romantic attachment, to me, no one really has a good description to agree on with pansexual, so I can't say I know what it is. funnily one of the things I'd want to write has a race of androids, and the people attracted to them would be "cybersexual" but it's treated like homo in the 80's often rejected or looked down upon in society, but two of the main characters would have that relationship... eventually. just another really confusing log on that fire I imagineI'm 30 and all these s*xual orientations confuse me though lol.
If I got into a relationship now at least early into it I imagine I would be a bit clingy, not so much pervin' on others is a sin clingy but practically attached sort of thing, after so long I wouldn't want any chance of something good going, but if I thought I liked someone and there was something there I may be overbearing for their attention, which could ruin my chances, something could happen if I realise how I'd act and try to stop that though.Why if I'm with someone now and feel bad in myself and worried about them in any form, I'm out of there now. It's not healthy.
sorry for saying the other stuff around it sounds like fluff but with this sentence not much more really needs to be said. it's quite simple and straight, though I think I have heard of the physical thing before, more about looks than what you may have suggested though, but yea some of the different sexuality stuff isn't tied that closely to say, a romantic partner, it does weigh more on preferencePansexual people are attracted to quite literally anyone irrespective of their gender identity or physical configuration
How do people feel about their partners crushing on anime characters?
Different strokes for different folks there, can’t explain it myself as I haven’t crushed on many people over the years and I can’t say any of them have been anime characters!I just don't understand how someone could have an attraction to a cartoon character. The one possible exception would be Jessica Rabbit
I was just talking to Neil on the phone actually, and I briefly mentioned Furries to him. Basically a community where it's not uncommon to find people who are romantically/sexually attracted to anthropomorphic animal characters. I mean, no disrespect (I have spoken to people from the community in the past who have been really decent and cool as well), but it's certainly something I can't understand myself.I just don't understand how someone could have an attraction to a cartoon character. The one possible exception would be Jessica Rabbit
I haven't been joining in with this thread much lately, mostly because I've just ended up talking with Aya about it, but I need to chime in with this.It's certainly tough, but I hope I can persevere eventually. Anyway, as you say, I'm still young, there's still plenty of time for change, hopefully it comes sooner rather than later
This is something else I would've wholly identified with perhaps as recently as early last year. I'm not even sure what it was that clicked — perhaps just throwing a bit of caution to the wind — but quite abruptly it ceased to be the case. It took bloody long enough! But I finally broke through the wall.When I'm writing something out here, I have time to think about what I'm jotting down, to re-read posts, correct mistakes and the like, but in real life, I'm always flubbing my words, stumbling in my sentences, or phrasing things poorly, generally just not being good at the whole social interaction thing!
If I got into a relationship now at least early into it I imagine I would be a bit clingy, not so much pervin' on others is a sin clingy but practically attached sort of thing, after so long I wouldn't want any chance of something good going, but if I thought I liked someone and there was something there I may be overbearing for their attention, which could ruin my chances, something could happen if I realise how I'd act and try to stop that though.
only way to be sure is to find someone I'm into, but I've forgotten what to look for really, I guess I'd know when I see it