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Wow, I've been at work all day and this discussion has really kicked off.

ayase, I take your point about finding other ways to satisfy desires of pedophiles but does that idea really help? Desires are rarely completely fulfilled, they grow and develop. How long before this 'fictional porn' isn't enough and they move up the next level, images of real children or even worse become an abuser themselves. It has the potential to cause much more damage than good.
 
What do we do then Sy? You could use that same argument (as some radical feminists do) to say that pornography in general, and even increased depiction of sexuality in the media, is indirectly responsible for rape.

You're presuming looking at lolicon makes people paedophiles (or that paedophiles are destiny-bound to abuse real children, I'm not sure which) wheras I'd presume you wouldn't go looking for lolicon unless you were a paedophile first, something which I don't think can be changed anymore than you can make a gay person straight, or vice-versa.
 
ayase said:
We have different views of how society should behave in terms of morality - I think it should be left to the individual as far as possible bar causing actual harm to others, and you think that the community has a role to play in shaping that individual morality. You're a beliver in the idea of a "public morality" and I'm not.

I think you have missed my point. I certainly reject the notion that I am in favour of "public morality" and all the baggage that term has. Indeed, I am in favour of legalising prostitution and all drugs, I don't believe homosexuality to be a malign influence on society, I don't believe sex before marriage is immoral, I don't believe in censorship by and large, etc. So using that term, I feel, is unfair. I do, however, believe that some things that society has collectively decided based upon morality (the criminalisation of murder and rape, to use obvious examples, the idea of the welfare state to use something a little more grey) are good decisions and I reject the idea that all collective decisions are by default bad, which seems to be your point?

We'd all probably prefer that no-one was attracted to children. It is abnormal - however, so are many non-illegal sexual fetishes and indeed, sexual orientations (to refer to the litteral meaning of the word here, not the norm, I'm not trying to insult you personally).

I have to take great umbrage and offense at your comparing of sexual orientation and sexual fetishes. You should know better.

I don't presume therefore that paedophiles can help being paedophiles, if you're attracted to something then there's not much you can do about that bar some kind of (eqaully unappealing) shock therapy to disincentivise behaviour. Therefore I think that it's better to allow fictional representations of the sexualisation of children than to ban them because of the very fact that there are no victims. Of course real child abuse and child pornography is harmful, but wouldn't it be better if (regardless of how distasteful you or I might find it) paedophiles had a way of gratifying their desires which did not result in the abuse of children? Well at the moment they do, and it's lolicon/shotacon.

I agree, I'm sure pedophiles do not choose to fetishise children, but those who do have these urges ought not embrace them and should not see them justified in imagery such as that Konota picture. If an individual has these urges there are psychiatric and psychological processes in place for 'treating' it and they should seek out this help and rid themselves of such an unhealthy fetish. That's how to deal with pedophiles. We should not appease them by promoting the use of lolicon and shotacon to temporarily satiate these harmful desires.

The minute we decide to ban it we will be criminalising many otherwise law abiding people on the basis that their desires and not their actions are wrong. And I think that's encroaching too far into the realm of the individual's rights.

I agree entirely. Lolicon and shotacon are obscene and disgusting and I'm almost sure they are harmful to the individuals that consume it but I do not want to ban it. My point, in objecting to that picture, is that it should be normalised and that imagery such as that should not be on general anime forums. That hobby is perverse and harmful and I don't want to see it justified on 'normal' sites like this. I was simply objecting to something I found massively distasteful.

(I got a little carried away which I have a tendancy to do when people are being conservative about things

I can't believe you're still saying me and Sy are being "conservative". On what planet is objecting to sexualised minors a "conservative" thing? :s
 
I think we do, now, get each other's points. Which is probably the best we can hope for, and is in many ways a successful conclusion to a debate on this forum. :p

CitizenGeek said:
ayase said:
We'd all probably prefer that no-one was attracted to children. It is abnormal - however, so are many non-illegal sexual fetishes and indeed, sexual orientations (to refer to the litteral meaning of the word here, not the norm, I'm not trying to insult you personally).
I have to take great umbrage and offense at your comparing of sexual orientation and sexual fetishes. You should know better.
Care to elaborate on this though? Both are finding certain things sexually attractive for no discernable reason, aren't they? There isn't a "reason" that I'm straight, or that you're gay, or that paedophiles are attracted to children (as we both agree on) or that people are attrected to different figures, hair colours etc.
 
Maxon said:
Ryo Chan said:
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ayase said:
Care to elaborate on this though? Both are finding certain things sexually attractive for no discernable reason, aren't they? There isn't a "reason" that I'm straight, or that you're gay, or that paedophiles are attracted to children (as we both agree on) or that people are attrected to different figures, hair colours etc.

Fetishes are about objectifying things and deriving sexual pleasure from them. It's an obsessive fixation on something that you have sexualised. All about sex, basically. Sexual orientation simply describes attraction to a certain gender and is not just about sex, not at all. Like I said, you should know better.
 
CitizenGeek said:
ayase said:
Care to elaborate on this though? Both are finding certain things sexually attractive for no discernable reason, aren't they? There isn't a "reason" that I'm straight, or that you're gay, or that paedophiles are attracted to children (as we both agree on) or that people are attrected to different figures, hair colours etc.
Fetishes are about objectifying things and deriving sexual pleasure from them. It's an obsessive fixation on something that you have sexualised. All about sex, basically. Sexual orientation simply describes attraction to a certain gender and is not just about sex, not at all. Like I said, you should know better.
:lol: Explain to me why I should know better then CG, I'm obviously clueless here.

I'm pretty sure people don't make a concious decision to have a sexual fetish. Do you think people choose to be turned on things like scat or bestiality? I would imagine not. People's preferances are either genetic or created by outside factors (whichever you happen to believe). The same goes for fetishes and sexual orientation and more mundane things such as if you prefer tea or coffee and, presumably, whether or not you like Mudkips.
 
"You should know better" is just a turn of phrase. Not targetted specifically at you, but just in general "people should know better" than to describe intrinsic characteristics like sexual orientation differ from the objectification of acts and objects and the deriving of sexual pleasure from them. That neither are chosen desires is just one aspect of them both and it's not what defines either necessarily. It's like saying giraffes and kittens are analogous because they both have legs.
 
And there goes Otaku-san posting distasteful and discomforting sexual images of children again. Lol, I'm the only with the 2 official warnings and Otaku-san isn't reprimanded for putting sick **** like this in a popular thread. AUKN used to be better than this!

/bitter
 
Ryo Chan is the resident moe/loli enabler/supporter. I forgot. But still, are you just blocking your eyes when you look at her legs and buttocks or are you really just delusional?
 
well it is a loli, but then if i posted an image of chiyo-chan, would i get penlised for it no.

******* look man she's wearing pants if you care to look.

jeez where's my fail picture...

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CitizenGeek said:
Ryo Chan is the resident moe/loli enabler/supporter. I forgot. But still, are you just blocking your eyes when you look at her legs and buttocks or are you really just delusional?

yes i'm delusional, i'll call the goverment now and bad schools from letting girls show their legs and wear short skirts
 
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