Rosencrantz said:
I've not seen the SoO Anime but from your 3 posts it seems the 1st novel skips some of the Anime episodes, were those just filler episodes or did the Anime go out of order when covering the material from the novels?
The novels had a different take to the series, basically the second volume had different events at different time periods while the first volume focuses on the main journey.
The anime was placed into chronological order from these events, which as a result confused people for acting like it was a harem.