In other words you would gain more satisfaction for his wrong doings against you if you repayed him with justly deserved portions of karma.
Im not one to mince my words, to peoples faces or otherwise. Personally i believe that instead of going around in the shadows seeking revenge, the best defence to a persons wrong doings against you is to establish a firm but fair offensive.
That doesn't mean i haven't accrued information silently until my moment to strike, i've done that in my previous department. But when i presented my evidence i didn't do so quietly - confront them, belittle the bully and shame them for what they have done. It gives them the option to think again before being a dick to someone.
Then its just a nice balance of authority and respect against possibly turning into another bigger bully. I'm certain people don't see me as the latter though as i bribe their subconscious with cake and other sweets
Anyway, i broke my filling yesterday, spend a whole 2 hours in work for monday and apparently do not have to give the time back as i had to leave for doctors and dentist appointments
Have a temporary filling in, got home lastnight and swollowed that. So back to the dentists this morning for another filling and £40 down. Glass ion cement filling to be done on the 16th.
Sat here with that horrible dentists taste in my mouth still but atleast i can smile about it lol