ilmaestro said:Forgive me for being presumptuous about a lady's age for a moment, but I was under the impression you were a little older than me, which would put you *just* (imo) at the end of the period where it was not seen as such a formality to stay on for sixth form/college and then attend Uni.
I think the pressure these days on kids to go all the way through education is beyond unreasonable by comparison, and agree with Maxon's comment about how early people are largely forced into making huge decisions.
I'm not sure how it is elsewhere, but at my rather posh grammar school (which was utterly unsuited to my personality!) we weren't supposed to be able to leave. I was automatically signed up to the sixth form then just stopped going after realising it was more of the same, and they refused to unsubscribe me so technically I have A Levels, all of which I failed through 'absence' as I hadn't been in school for over a year. It was harder to deal with the administration and attempts to shame me than just continuing would have been, absurdly.
I do think that nowadays people automatically assume everyone passes through the system in the expected way, and indeed I've found that when looking for jobs. My boss occasionally remembers I have no degree and exclaims in surprise (especially as I helped her daughter with her own university acceptance process). People all mature differently and some need a chance to get out and experience the world before being taken to the next level. I'd have got nothing out of university, the way I was back then.
All of my close friends were uni graduates, having met up there and shared a hobby of anime, so I think there's some truth to FourthLion's assumption about how a lot of people start out. I just sort of butted in later.
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