Haha, I'm beginning to now! I'm sorry I doubted your society! XD
Yeah, I think I used to feel pressured by it, but not so much now, it's just a load of rubbish as far as I'm concerned. Life isn't a race, and I'm doing things my own way, at my own pace! I've bloomed late on in life anyway, so I almost feel like I'm only just starting in that sense; it's taken me a while to find my feet and I've had the rug pulled from underneath me on occasions (one step forward and ten backwards seems to be the norm for me). So, I just go with the flow now, for sure!