Isn't all this hysteria over moe just a double standard, though? I find it somewhat redundant to, on one hand, object to these so-called "unsavory fetishes" of moe, but on the other, to enjoy something like Ninja Scroll, despite its content being just as morally bankrupt, albeit in a different way. So, just as some people are willing to call others perverse for enjoying moe or whatever, I'd retort that it's supposedly just as disgusting to enjoy watching people being stabbed, exploded, eviscerated.
If you look at it like that, you'll realise that enjoying something for what it is, is fine. After all, it's just escapism, not real. I'm not a fan of moe anime, but I'm also not foolish enough to object to it on moral grounds either, because I'm hardly a beacon of moral sanctity myself and just as I might raise complaints about the archetypal moe characterization, someone can just as rightly complain about the blood-thirsty, aggressive nature of my own favourites (Berserk being one).