So you're saying culture plays no part in how people act? It may be a personal thing, but it shapes our beliefs, how we view the world and how we act. It's like you don't even understand human nature. When you're at a party, where there's 1000s people, what do you do? (this is the general you, not you as an individual), you find and stick with those that are most similar to you, and relate to you in terms of culture. Societies are built from those who hold similar values, maybe some differences in political thought but the values are generally the same - the world is not yet at a point where everyone from every country holds the same values, so I don't see it being a very cohesive society. The world is interesting because of the different societies and cultures that have been allowed to manifest.
Some people like to mix and share ideas with those who are different. Even if you tend towards people who are similar, they're not going to be exactly the same and there will be opportunities to learn and develop by sharing different ideas from different perspectives. A society is a collection of people who are all different, regardless of whether they share similar ideas, cultures and goals. Building a society is about learning to live with others and, ideally, working together to improve our lives and the world around us.
You can call it artificial competition, but for those losing out, it's not very artificial at all - it's happening right now, and they want to see that their nations are giving them a fighting chance, rather than making things easier from those outside their own society.
I call it artificial because it's a constructed system that has been built up over many years but which is not relevant or suitable for modern society. We don't need to compete in the way that we do because, collectively, we have enough resources and technology to meet the basic needs of everyone. Instead, we stick to our borders and personal wealth and other artificial status frameworks because we're used to them and scared of change.
You keep saying this system is so flawed, but there's no evidence to suggest your proposed solution would work. I think governments working on their own social and political issues and, where it is best, doing trade deals (not agreeing freedom of movement) would be best to resolve a lot of issues, as people are taking the time to work on their own problems and getting their own house in order. You know, it's like in a work place - concentrate on your own work, if you look to what others are doing too much (aside from shadowing to see examples of good practice), it will distract you. This is better than everybody being so involved here there and everywhere, doing what they think is better for those in other nations, where there may in fact be huge cultural difference and so therefore the interference does more bad than good. You know what's best for your OWN nation, or should be looking into it, so stick to that.
In a previous post, you mentioned that your workplace benefits by having a team with oversight that checks on all of the other groups and stays aware of what they're all doing so that they can meet high standards. Each team may well know what's best for them but they may be unaware of how their activities are affecting the other teams. Without having someone with a wider perspective, teams will only focus on their perceived immediate needs and may end up causing problems for others and suffering problems from other teams doing the same. We don't all have to directly work together but it pays to have a system in place to support more cooperative working. If everyone is only ever willing to do what they think is best for their team then they might ultimately do more harm than good.
You can quote that at work, if you like.
We could work on solving problems elsewhere, but those people elsewhere are not paying for this society and keeping it afloat. We help where we can and show compassion, but their issues need to be looked at by their own governments. Our governments need to focus on doing what's best for us, their own people - it is us, after all, that put them where they are.
We're part of a big world, that's something that affects what we do and is affected by what we do. We could say that we're focussing on our own people but that's not going to stop us having international companies, international alliances and other international dealings. We should certainly work on improving things for people locally but we should do so in ways that also take into account international considerations. Cooperation may mean that local people benefit a bit less so that others can also benefit but it also means that standards can improve internationally and that can in turn allow other societies to cooperate with us in ways that benefit us as well as them.
People are certainly capable of caring about others. Capability is not the issue - the issue is whether people act in that way or not. How can you guarantee that everyone will consider everyone else every second of every single day, to the point where a society like the one you fantasise about could work? The answer is you can't.
When it comes down to it, everything is done for inherently selfish reasons. By no means am I excusing human behaviour, humans suck. Don't mistake my condemnation of human behaviour as excusing it. But practically there will be a point where inevitably it benefits somebody more to **** on somebody else than not, and it's impossible to overcome that, humans just aren't benevolent enough.
I'm not entirely convinced by the argument that everything is inherently selfish but, even if it's true, if people work together and support each other purely because it makes them feel good then that's likely to be good enough in a practical sense. If people only act for selfish reasons, then you just have to give them the right selfish motivation to act in ways that benefit others. Educate them on the benefits of cooperation, teach them to be aware of how they might live with others and build a culture where looking out for each other is seen as a primary goal.
Even if you think people are purely selfish, that's no excuse for just giving up. There are still ways to guide people onto different paths and there's still room for creative solutions.
People will their interests first. And I think, the more people realise this and accept it, the better. Stops you getting some shocks along the way in life when you suddenly realise, that not a lot of people will care about you. It's a flaw, but it's not something I think people should be shamed or punished for, unless those self interests directly harm someone else or threaten their lives - law, here's your queue.
Those kind of assumptions might make certain aspects of life easier (or, at least, seem easier), but they are still inaccurate and unreliable. If you don't leave room for doubt and possibility, then you're deliberately limiting potential. It's ultimately just a way to try to make the world easier to cope with when the reality is that things are far more complex.
I'd agree that there's nothing inherently wrong with self-interest, but we can't escape from being a part of the world we inhabit and trying to hide from it rather than face it is only likely to harm us.
I do think it's also worth noting that cooperation and building a better society can ultimately be in people's own interests. It may be a longer term approach, but there are benefits and they can be greater overall.