ok this is frustrating and i'm worried.
first of i'm sure people are aware of the new age restriction law's for the internet in the uk (i spent 6 year's watching the whole bill go through parliament and an attempt before that) and i don't want to go through with that so i use a vpn particularly to use discord. Yesterday i used it as normal on my laptop and normally i only use the vpn when i need too and i keep the discord tab open on my browser and hit refresh on the chrome tab with discord once i've activated the vpn and the age-gate on the discord server (which is 18+) disappears and that's what happened fine at first. Then i deactivated it to do something else that involved going to my setting's in chrome and clearing the data cookies. Then i came back to discord to discover i needed to log in again so i do and forgot i switched off the vpn so i switched it on and hit refresh like normal but this time it didn't change and was still age gated.
worried i changed the vpn location but no change, i think maybe it's the browser so i log in on another browser but no change, at this point i'm thinking maybe it's my account and discord now detect's the vpn. I tried on my tablet and the vpn worked fine on the chrome on the tablet but thought well i always use the chrome on the tablet for discord so try a different browser on the tablet and i could still get passed the age block on discord on the tablet so i concluded whatever the problem is it's on the laptop not the discord account (or it is the account and they haven't got round to doing whatever they did to my tablet yet).
so today i get back to the laptop for more thing's to try (and i'm not technically minded) i delete the data on the vpn, didn't work, deleted the data on chrome again and log in to discord with the vpn on, didn't work, i downloaded a whole new vpn, it didn't work so it had nothing to do with the specific vpn, i even did a deep clean with Ccleaner, it didn't work.
i'm at my wit's end, and while i could still imagine it's my account it might not because there are some filtered images in my DM's where without the vpn i can't see them without an age check but with a vpn i can still see them so it might not be the account, and for all i know it could just be that one discord server that i'm affected by but i'm not in any other 18+ servers so i can't test that.
i don't know what the hell i've done or if it will fix itself and don't know if anyone else has any idea what i did or if i did anything?