Rui, I have a question: why did you ramble about feminism, making your first post I've seen in ages of any value, instead of responding to my Ocean Waves thread?
Is this an anime forum or 'FemFirst'?
Also, I feel you've raised an interesting point we've your "dinner lady" description of yourself.
There's a very easy way to find out how attractive a female on the internet is without seeing her: by going on how much of a bitch the female in question is. If someone is hot, then they've been chased after and have grown to like the attention. That carries over to the internet, and it's almost a guarantee a hottie will have a blog, have gotten her breasts out or have done something to draw attention towards herself.
On the net, you either have to be content with sausage fests or talk to females looking like this if you want 'friendship':
http://www.3waytv.tv/wp-content/uploads ... /geri1.jpg
On another note, you've reminded me how I sexually harassed cats on FFXI by annoying the hell out of them. As a knight in shining armour (/paladin), I viewed it to be my duty to find a cat to marry; one who could assist with my heroic deeds.
...sadly, I usually just got the /slap emote in return.
By the way, like you can detect if a female is hot or not, you can also judge if a guy is a raging homosexual or not in many cases. I uncovered the not-so-hidden gayness of two people just by their dramatic word usage and femininity, and I have my suspicions about Ayase...