A Rant About My School

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shira

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I posted this all on another forum I use, but figured, you guys are far more intelligent than thier users, and wanted your opinion. I know i'm being a bit dramatic here but, heck, its seriously pissing me off now. Anyway; here I go:


Anyone who knows me knows that I hate my School, however in this last week it has pushed me too far.

The first incident occured a about a week Monday ago. A boy in my class sent an e-mail to All Pupils and Teachers with a picture of a monkey wearing glasses. It was a silly, yet harmless picture. He got put into isolation and had letters sent home informing his parents.

My question is, why is it, within about 20 minutes they had punished him, yet when someone is reported for bullying, physcially assaulting (With evidence), verbally assaulting it can take up to a month to be looked at? I know several people who have reported bullying, and no care is taken whatsoever during the process. In some cases the people who were being accused got to read the witness statements, and saw who signed them, and 90% of the time they get off free. Maybe a day or two in isolation. Is this adequate punishment? I'd say not. They repeatedly offend (and have been for the past 5 years) yet still, only now have they been excluded from school (for about 2 days).

Whats sickening is the people in question above, I over heard have special treatments due to thier mothers attitude. Normally thier mother turns around and basically says "**** you" to the school when they get in trouble, however, the school negotiated to not put htem in any trouble if she was willing to come on the premises and listen to what they say. (May I note hear, she doesnt have to take any action upon what they say).

Also; it took about 2 weeks for this to take action. 2 weeks after my friend reporting he was pinned up against lockers, threatened, and my other friend had been hit (He left the fight with a bleeding nose but the Deputy Head deemed 'No one was hurt enough to warrant discipline'. An interesting note is, my friend who was bleeding is Asian, whereas the boy who is renowned for causing trouble is British.) To me, all this says they encourage small fights? I don't think thats the way forward, somehow.

Now, the thing really pissed me off was, a boy get sent to the headmaster for not putting the "Mister" infront of a teachers name. He was told he was disrespecting the teacher. Now, i'm sorry, I think it's more disrespectful to ignore a pupils plea for help from bullies, than to forget a 'mister'. I am not lying when over the last 5 years, me and my friends have reported the same bullies countless times.


Now, for incident 2. The schools lighting. The headmaster announced that due to our energy bill being too high, he wanted to leave classroom lights that weren't being used off, and keep doors shut in the hallways to preserve heat. Seems tight, it was funny. I laughed. However, one teacher who is an arselick to the head, has taken this further. She makes us turn off the lights during Form Period and Lessons claiming the natural light from outside is adequete. Now, the Education Standards say 300lux on every surface is the minimum. Im sorry, 9am overcast is not putting 300lux to every surface in her room, when its a large room too. We're using striplights for ***** sake, they are energy efficient.

She also doesn't allow us to have the hallway lights on. May I add, the Education Standards say hallways are included in the minimum lighting rules, as eyestrain can be a problem if your left in badly lit environments all day.

What pissed me off big style? Today at break, she hounded me for turning a hallway light. I can't quote exactly but it was something like this;

I know what your doing, and you know. Now, we work very hard to save the school money on its energy bill, you don't. You do nothing. When you work to pay the bill, you will have permission to turn the lights off. I am on the school Eco Commity and when I see you turning lights on, it hurts me inside, if you have a problem with how the school is being run, you know who to talk to

The bold part is hilarious, is it not?

Oh the irony in that speech. For one, she works in the school, meaning she gets paid. Paid valuable money that could be used on the schools lighting. However, as a pupil, the school get paid for keeping me. I'd say I have more of a right to have some lighting, as apossed to her. Also; its kinda hypocritical since she leaves her laptop on all the time, isn't it?

Now, in responce to this, I said "Whenever I try explaining my thoughts on how the schools run, the school never listen". She replied;

Yes well, thats whenever, isnt it!

That makes no sense to me, and during this she was shoving her finger in my face. I then asked "Who should I speak to then, since I do have a problem with how the school is run", to which she replied;

Just shut up and go away!

I will make it clear here, everything she said was shouted very loudly. Overreaction, if I say so myself.


In conclusion, I think it's ridiculous how the school is being run. They want us to save energy by keeping doors closed in the hallway, so we dont waste heating, however, we're banned from wearing coats indoors? All those energy saving campaigns, don't they always say "Instead of turning the heating up, put on an extra layer". Obviously, not those exact words however, its something similar.

//Rant over
 
Your school's reaction to the chronic bullying problem is shocking. Have you spoken to your parents about it? It might be a good idea to get them to speak with the principal?
 
CitizenGeek said:
Your school's reaction to the chronic bullying problem is shocking. Have you spoken to your parents about it? It might be a good idea to get them to speak with the principal?

board of directors if the school has one, more likely to get results
 
In my experience most schools' general attitude to bullies / disruptive or violent pupils is the same: "He's having trouble at home" or some other excuse to let them off the hook. It seems as though circumstances make it excusable for certain students to beat the **** out of others, but any student who questions school policy or a teacher's authority is hauled over the coals no matter what. It doesn't help that the latter are usually the more intellegent and aware ones who tend to be preyed on by the former, usually just violent thugs who, actully, have no motivation or excuse for being that way. How many people remember, even in primary school being told "Don't tell tales" when you tried to report bullying? Looking back at it now, school seems like Bizarro World.

Man: "Excuse me officer, I'd like to report a serious assault!"
Policeman: "Now then, you shouldn't say bad things about other people"
Man: "But look, he really beat me up!"
Policeman: "Well I'm sure it's because he's having some problems of his own."
Man: "What the hell? That's it, I'm going to report you to the Police Complaints Commision!"
Policeman: "What? How dare you! Come 'ere sonny, it's a night in the cells for you!"

If I ever have any kids it'll be Steiner Education for them, no question.
 
In schools complaining to people about bullying never seemed to work, they got in trouble, were given detention/put on report yet they always came back. I never did figure out why they did it, but i guess it was because i didn't act like them. What got me more is the whole "You grassed me up! You (insert swear work here)" mentality some seemed to have. I mean yeah like i'm just going to sit here and not do anything? Still lukcily the bullying was restricted to senior school and below, College was free from it, plus i had some personal reveleations that would of made it harder for them to get to me.

Still in regards to your 2nd situtlation Spyro, teachers don't like it when they lose control, students pointing out flaws or calling them hypocrites (or when a student attacks them as seen in my secondary school) and as i said on msn, just report them to whoever inspects the shcools these days (for best effect leave it as late as possible so that it doesn't affect you leaving the school)
 
just deal with it... there is always gonna be people higher up than you who are gonna do things you dont agree, there's always gonna be people who think they are smarter than you and it kills you inside knowing they're not. its probably at its worst at school but its not much better at work.

but ur gonna wanna bitch and argue and say ur right and they're wrong. i agree with u in ur complaint but in all honesty im sure ur eyes arent strained or atleast its not really bothering you but u just wanna fight the unjust system... hmmmm i dunno what direction i want to take this post in.
i wanna tell you theres no point in fighting the matter but when i was at school i had to put with the same kinda stuff and kicked up as much **** as possible about it until they sent me to college to do my gcse's because they didnt know what to do with me anymore lol

i guess u should just pick ur battles and just know ur not gonna change the world lol
 
CitizenGeek said:
Your school's reaction to the chronic bullying problem is shocking. Have you spoken to your parents about it? It might be a good idea to get them to speak with the principal?

Yeah. In honesty all of us have been to see the Head, and all our Parents have been there. We've discussed whats happening, how feel nothing is being done, etc. and he just laughs and goes "You're wrong". Because, obviously, he knows if we're being bullied at all....

In my experience most schools' general attitude to bullies / disruptive or violent pupils is the same: "He's having trouble at home" or some other excuse to let them off the hook.

Bingo! But you try telling them is doesn't make it justified, and they don't listen. Yet, if that person were to "Disrespect a teacher" or "Send an offensive email" they'd have the hammer come down on em.

but u just wanna fight the unjust system

I have been. I like to think I can make a difference somewhere. Thankfully, since i'm the only one with balls enough to speak up (It shows doesn't it, if i'm the only one willing to speak my opinions, how much **** you get in with the school for doing so) even though alot of people share my opinion. This leaves me as a kind of rallying point for all these people so, I get quite a bit of support (at times).
 
Well....like i've said afew times mate....there's afew ways to deal with this....

1, you stick it out till you finish in 2 months.

2, you report the bullying one last time and then if nothings done you hunt the bullies down and get even.

on the energy saving thing i loled....that maybe the reason nobody can see the bullying or anyone hurt....all the lights are off so they can't see past their noses.

my high school had a zero tolerance to bullying....when a friend in my year was beaten up by someone in a higher year we notified the teachers. the bullies had nothing done to them as the teachers couldn't pick out the one who inflicted the damage. (disregarding the possibility that all of them where guilty.
weeks passed and another guy was beaten up......they decided to punish the whole group of bullies.....detention....which they didn't turn up for......no action followed.
more weeks and another guy beat up....and pretty bad aswell...this was what sparked a retaliation.....collectivley our years boys gathered on the field and when the bullies appeared they got ten bells of **** kicked out of them.
the every boy in our year was made to write statements.....the case was dropped as we all said we didn't know who did it.

similar thing happend with the year below, a unrulely year who sought to fight our year for the slightest thing....one snowday both years where on the field....someone from our year was put in hospital by a red tie (year below us) soon followed another year fight....this shows that even our high school....which is the top in 3 counties has its flaws....they can't instill zero tolerance....there's always loopholes....and you need to realise that there will always be another guy that pisses you off....and will find a loophole in the system.....its life.

what i'm trying to say is....sometimes the smartest thing to do is to stop the bullies yourself. providng you have equal numbers.
and sometimes its smarter to bide your time and wait it out.
 
Tachi i would of loved for you to have been in my year...I'm sure you would of found my school to be quite intresting...
 
The only thing I can suggest is taking it your local council if it's a public school or an education authority. Talking to anyone that's part of your school doesn't seem to get anywhere. Local councils do like to keep a lid on things if they think there's a chance it will escalate and ruin their image, so I think they would want to get this stamped out as soon as possible.

I never experienced bullying problems at my school. It's been 5 years since I left though, and it is the second worst in my region, so it could very well have changed.
 
Maxon said:
The only thing I can suggest is taking it your local council if it's a public school or an education authority. Talking to anyone that's part of your school doesn't seem to get anywhere. Local councils do like to keep a lid on things if they think there's a chance it will escalate and ruin their image, so I think they would want to get this stamped out as soon as possible.

I never experienced bullying problems at my school. It's been 5 years since I left though, and it is the second worst in my region, so it could very well have changed.

I may well do so.

I also know quite a few people who do the best selling local newspaper, so i'm tempted to submit an article for them. They dislike the school as it is.

@Tachi: Trust me. I intend to get even, but i'm waiting t ill i've left the school. My school would just punish me to **** for hurting someone. Thats just how they are.
 
Yeah, report it to your council or someone higher up than the school that isn't the school.. Especially the council, they'll want to look like they're doing/taking care of something.
 
I know relatively few people who have predominantly good things to say about their school lives. Principally, my views on schools in the long run are quite nihilistic: what they give you more than anything else is a sequence of letters to take with you, said letters being attained by jumping through the government-maintained hoops of an examination board.

Many of the administrative initiatives you have to bear (such as your school's environmental scheme) are, as you have come to be aware of, pointless and acerebral acts proposed by people you're better off forgetting about.

If you can get in touch with the council it may bode well, but I have the suspicion the school wouldn't be too pleased if they hear you blowing whistles. You may well have to grin and bear it a little longer, get your grades and look forwards to moving on. Better experiences lie ahead of you.
 
Zin5ki said:
I know relatively few people who have predominantly good things to say about their school lives. Principally, my views on schools in the long run are quite nihilistic: what they give you more than anything else is a sequence of letters to take with you, said letters being attained by jumping through the government-maintained hoops of an examination board.

Many of the administrative initiatives you have to bear (such as your school's environmental scheme) are, as you have come to be aware of, pointless and acerebral acts proposed by people you're better off forgetting about.

If you can get in touch with the council it may bode well, but I have the suspicion the school wouldn't be too pleased if they hear you blowing whistles. You may well have to grin and bear it a little longer, get your grades and look forwards to moving on. Better experiences lie ahead of you.

I seriously hope better things lie ahead. It'll drive me insane if I have to stay in this kind of environment much longer. 8 weeks to go...
 
Spyro201 said:
I seriously hope better things lie ahead. It'll drive me insane if I have to stay in this kind of environment much longer. 8 weeks to go...

I totally understand where you are coming from with that feeling,as it seems now that I'm about three weeks of departing for study leave(thank God!!!),every last thing that could possibly crawl its way out of the woodwork to annoy and irritate me is doing just that.It seems that right now,even though time is flying forwards,peoples mindsets our flying back and most have now reverted to a kind of tribal mentality,complete with howling,(I kid you not).It's like that old saying "things have to get worse before they get better",describes what's going on perfectly.

Seriously though,pretty soon you'll have exams and then all you have to do is get the grades(obviously easier said than done as all students know)and then get yourslef out of there for good.Do not let the current situation get you down,it wont be forever even if it seems that way right now,just keep pushing on and it will al be over before you know it!At college everything will change for the better.Hang in there!^_^
 
Welcome to Wales!

(Naw, I'm sure Welsh schools aren't that bad. But you teachers do seem horribly strict.)

When you say "Isolation" is that your school's equivalent of "The Chokey"?
 
Will-O'-The-Wisp said:
Welcome to Wales!

(Naw, I'm sure Welsh schools aren't that bad. But you teachers do seem horribly strict.)

When you say "Isolation" is that your school's equivalent of "The Chokey"?

Well the teachers in Isolation are never really that strict cause they'd rather be doing something else, so its basically you and 2 others missing lessons for the day. Sometimes you get a strict teacher but, you don't need to work, you can just draw on the paper your given, or vandalise the desk; something like that. As yes; its true because i've been in there once or twice.
 
Pick a day when all the assholes actually decide to turn up for school; it was the day my class had P.E back when I was in school. Take a fire axe or knife, and strike early in the morning. You should be able to take out enough of the bastards before the Police or a particularly brave teacher manages to get the weapon from you.

Trust me, it's the only way. The teachers don't care for the future, that their poor discipline of all the Chavs and criminals (Whoops! Same thing!) is leading the country to its doom, they only care for their pay packet and the few short years they'll live after retirement. The police won't care, they only get off their fat arses for crimes that will get them promotion, like Illegal Immigrants.

If your under 16, you should be fine. They can't try you as an adult, you'll just get sent to to a youth detention centre, where you can get the rest of your education. After that, when you hit 18, you don't have to speak of any "crimes" (HA! Like killing chavs is a crime!) and you'll have your qualifications to get a job. Plus, you would have reduced the amount of crime by removing some of the criminal population.

Also, leaving reports as late as possible just allows the bullies to get off scot-free, leading to the ever growing criminal population getting more members for their great, big, happy, dole-scum family.
 
CopperAlloy said:
Pick a day when all the assholes actually decide to turn up for school; it was the day my class had P.E back when I was in school. Take a fire axe or knife, and strike early in the morning. You should be able to take out enough of the bastards before the Police or a particularly brave teacher manages to get the weapon from you.

Trust me, it's the only way. The teachers don't care for the future, that their poor discipline of all the Chavs and criminals (Whoops! Same thing!) is leading the country to its doom, they only care for their pay packet and the few short years they'll live after retirement. The police won't care, they only get off their fat arses for crimes that will get them promotion, like Illegal Immigrants.

If your under 16, you should be fine. They can't try you as an adult, you'll just get sent to to a youth detention centre, where you can get the rest of your education. After that, when you hit 18, you don't have to speak of any "crimes" (HA! Like killing chavs is a crime!) and you'll have your qualifications to get a job. Plus, you would have reduced the amount of crime by removing some of the criminal population.

Also, leaving reports as late as possible just allows the bullies to get off scot-free, leading to the ever growing criminal population getting more members for their great, big, happy, dole-scum family.

Biggest problem there is i'm over 16 so I can get done as an adult.
 
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