I have slowly come to the conclusion

[chaos]

I think it depends on who this pressure comes from.
Close relatives or girlfriends have a lot of influence you know... I've dated this girl who emotionally manipulated me to something that most of my friends could not recognize as me. I only noticed what I was doing after we broke up.

I reckon that close relatives such as parents , spouses, children, etc have an awful lot of influence as well. Not saying all influence is bad though.

 

[shira]

I think it depends on who this pressure comes from.
Close relatives or girlfriends have a lot of influence you know... I've dated this girl who emotionally manipulated me to something that most of my friends could not recognize as me. I only noticed what I was doing after we broke up.

I reckon that close relatives such as parents , spouses, children, etc have an awful lot of influence as well. Not saying all influence is bad though.

I agree with this. Not all is bad, if its from people close to you. Ive improved.

 

[chaos]

I think it depends on who this pressure comes from.
Close relatives or girlfriends have a lot of influence you know... I've dated this girl who emotionally manipulated me to something that most of my friends could not recognize as me. I only noticed what I was doing after we broke up.

I reckon that close relatives such as parents , spouses, children, etc have an awful lot of influence as well. Not saying all influence is bad though.

I agree with this. Not all is bad, if its from people close to you. Ive improved.

in that particular case of my bitch ex, i didn't a typical conversation with her would go like this:

her - you know I'm mad at you!
me - mad at me? why? I did nothing!
her - that's the problem! All you do is nothing!

 

[BlackWolf]

I think it depends on who this pressure comes from.
Close relatives or girlfriends have a lot of influence you know... I've dated this girl who emotionally manipulated me to something that most of my friends could not recognize as me. I only noticed what I was doing after we broke up.

I reckon that close relatives such as parents , spouses, children, etc have an awful lot of influence as well. Not saying all influence is bad though.

I had a friend who had that exact situlation, except his g/f started stopping him seeing his friends altogether

 

[chaos]

I think it depends on who this pressure comes from.
Close relatives or girlfriends have a lot of influence you know... I've dated this girl who emotionally manipulated me to something that most of my friends could not recognize as me. I only noticed what I was doing after we broke up.

I reckon that close relatives such as parents , spouses, children, etc have an awful lot of influence as well. Not saying all influence is bad though.

I had a friend who had that exact situlation, except his g/f started stopping him seeing his friends altogether

I've seen that as well... it usually ends bad. If it takes long to end, then it ends really bad - Ok, I'm assuming the guys friends are normal people and not scum, in which case it's a good thing she don't let him see them anyway...

 

[shira]

I think it depends on who this pressure comes from.
Close relatives or girlfriends have a lot of influence you know... I've dated this girl who emotionally manipulated me to something that most of my friends could not recognize as me. I only noticed what I was doing after we broke up.

I reckon that close relatives such as parents , spouses, children, etc have an awful lot of influence as well. Not saying all influence is bad though.

I agree with this. Not all is bad, if its from people close to you. Ive improved.

in that particular case of my bitch ex, i didn't a typical conversation with her would go like this:

her - you know I'm mad at you!
me - mad at me? why? I did nothing!
her - that's the problem! All you do is nothing!

Haha. Im just lucky mine isnt like that, though my bitch of an ex was the same as that. Some people theres no pleasing??

 

[BlackWolf]

I think it depends on who this pressure comes from.
Close relatives or girlfriends have a lot of influence you know... I've dated this girl who emotionally manipulated me to something that most of my friends could not recognize as me. I only noticed what I was doing after we broke up.

I reckon that close relatives such as parents , spouses, children, etc have an awful lot of influence as well. Not saying all influence is bad though.

I had a friend who had that exact situlation, except his g/f started stopping him seeing his friends altogether

I've seen that as well... it usually ends bad. If it takes long to end, then it ends really bad - Ok, I'm assuming the guys friends are normal people and not scum, in which case it's a good thing she don't let him see them anyway...

Yeah we we're normal people and the relationship didn't last much longer and ended badly

 

[Nyu]

social pressure is fine aslong as its for good.