I'm making little headway here, so rather than us both going over very well worn arguments which will make neither of us change our position, (and since no-one else is remotely interested) I'll leave you with a couple of thoughts. Feel free to reply to or not, but I grow weary now. I've had this debate several times with several people and when their views are set in stone as yours appear to be there is really very little point.
Firstly, I am not 'Anti-American' and frankly, for it's citizens I consider the United States to be a better country than the United Kingdom. In the words of Morrissey from the song America Is Not The World:
"I love you, I just wish you'd stay where you is." I don't care who instigates them, I am simply against wars of aggression; as most stable, developed liberal democracies generally are and as Britain and the United States have also been for most of their history. When is a country at it's best? In my opinion, when it's not interfering in the affairs of other nations and getting on with it's own business.
I "Feel no compassion or sympathy... for 30 million people?" Give me a break. Of course I feel sympathy for them as I do for the people of the other countries I mentioned that we haven't invaded. Feeling compassion towards them =/= believing our government should topple theirs via military action. I just think the people of any given country should be the ones to decide on it's direction. If the majority of people in a nation hate their government, they will either revolt or decide to be submissive, that's their choice, no-one else's.
CitizenGeek said:
As a civilian with no choice in the matter if you're dead you're dead, whether you were gassed by Saddam or killed in a Coalition air-strike. Wars just get all the killing done faster.
Really, you don't see any difference between the two? Imagine someone murders your infant sister because she is a Kurd. Now imagine she is instead killed when she is accidentally hit by a Coalition truck or by stray shrapnel. Don't tell me you'd feel the exact same in both situations, because I won't believe you.
No, I'd feel similar but with different targets for my anger. If I was an Iraqi and Saddam and his followers killed a member of my family, I'd want to depose him and his regime as, in time, the Iraqi people may well have done themselves. If troops from another country killed a member of my family, I'd want them out of my country and may well decide to take revenge on them, as many have. I imagine the first thing I'd think would be "Would they have died if it hadn't been for this war?" and in most cases, the answer there would be no.
I think the legacy of this war is that the people of Iraq did not choose the course of their own future - The governments of the US and UK chose it for them. Historically, this move has often come back to bite the governments (and their people) who thought they knew what was best for countries other than their own.