1. Seems to be down to luck. You could always ask them, though technically even if they mark it down it's possible for customs to inspect the parcel and charge you anyway if they can see it's a lie.
http://www.animeuknews.net/forums/viewt ... =5&t=17872
2. Your bank would be the best one to advise. What kind of card do you have with that account (e.g. Visa Debit, Maestro)?
Another option you might want to consider when comparing is Amazon USA but with the express shipping (there are usually three shipping options and if you see it charging extra for "Import Fees Deposit" then you won't get extra import fees when the parcel arrives). You'll never pay more than the price they quote on the order confirmation and they usually refund part of the fees paid too if they estimated them too high. Also, Amazon.com can charge in GBP if you're worried about unexpected conversion fees. I like to compare the total price in several different places to save a few pennies and sometimes Amazon.com is cheapest even with the shipping/import fee costs
Wait, you already asked this and got loads of answers here:
http://animeuknews.net/forums/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=18222
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