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On topic:To be honest i pick and choose my chivalry. I mean when it comes to stupid things like helping a lady to her seat or standing up when they come to a table....i just dont do it (unless its for a girlfriend in which case its just romantic hehe) It does feel rather wierd and honestly slightly like a "come on" move - like you're being unnecessarily nice just to get into her pants or something. Thats kind of what stops me from pushing the whole chivalry thing, ill help when i can but i wont go totally out of my way, chucking coats down into the puddles etc, acts like that seem more like a flirtatious move than something done purely out of the goodness of your own heart.But yes i do the basic stuff like open doors and give up my seat to....well older women at least (come on people my age need the exercise hehe) but then again its not only because "its the done thing".....its just nicer Women are (in the main) less scary than men and when you do a good deed in my experience you at least get a smile, most men ive opened the door for barely offer a grunt whereas i nearly always get a "thank you" from women.
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To be honest i pick and choose my chivalry. I mean when it comes to stupid things like helping a lady to her seat or standing up when they come to a table....i just dont do it (unless its for a girlfriend in which case its just romantic hehe) It does feel rather wierd and honestly slightly like a "come on" move - like you're being unnecessarily nice just to get into her pants or something. Thats kind of what stops me from pushing the whole chivalry thing, ill help when i can but i wont go totally out of my way, chucking coats down into the puddles etc, acts like that seem more like a flirtatious move than something done purely out of the goodness of your own heart.
But yes i do the basic stuff like open doors and give up my seat to....well older women at least (come on people my age need the exercise hehe) but then again its not only because "its the done thing".....its just nicer Women are (in the main) less scary than men and when you do a good deed in my experience you at least get a smile, most men ive opened the door for barely offer a grunt whereas i nearly always get a "thank you" from women.
