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  1. Vashdaman

    Relationships and Romance

    I can understand what everyone here is saying, I've had those feelings of hurt flash through me over the last couple of weeks plenty, but I think I'm more inclined to agree with ayase in that I don't know what the heck is going through her mind and I don't think it's fair to assume that she's...
  2. Vashdaman

    Relationships and Romance

    Ok I'm going to write out that part that I edited out again, kind of. So when I apologised for if my affectionate poem made her uncomfortable and asked if we could skype and I promised I would be normal and just talk as we used to, she replied saying my poem didn't make her uncomfortable and we...
  3. Vashdaman

    Relationships and Romance

    I think long distances relationships aren't a problem for me. I mean I want to share those physical experiences too of course, as much as anyone does trust me, but I can wait for those to come in the future when we are together, and it might be hard to get into a position where we are living in...
  4. Vashdaman

    Relationships and Romance

    This morning it has really hit me, I've been totally overwhelming the poor girl. I would have overwhelmed a more ardent lover type let alone a girl like her who really shies away from that stuff in general. I've been a brute without fully realising it. She said we might skype this weekend, and...
  5. Vashdaman

    Relationships and Romance

    It's true that I am being needy though, and yeah it seems like she's the least needy person in the world seemingly. I suppose if I'm going to stand any chance of potentially being in a relationship with her I'm going to have to try to become as not needy as her. I think she's really worth it...
  6. Vashdaman

    Relationships and Romance

    Yeah, I don't want her to feel like she has to talk to me when she doesn't want to, even though obviously I wish she would want to. And one thing I've always liked about her is that (probably similar to you, ayase) she does exactly what she wants with her life, she doesn't even waste time on the...
  7. Vashdaman

    Relationships and Romance

    So this agony has just been continuing as it had been, but now it's been a whole week without any email from her, that's the longest it's ever been since we've known each other. Although I messaged her the other day to ask if she's ok and she said she's well just busy and she thanked me for...
  8. Vashdaman

    Relationships and Romance

    Yeah, I'm just trying to be as cool and patient as I can about things while also trying to be positive and honest. Trying my best not to overthink. I agree with ayase about some people (many probably) being less into loquacious small talk than I am. It's kind of tricky if I start thinking too...
  9. Vashdaman

    Relationships and Romance

    Thanks a lot ayase. I think that's pretty good advice, it seems to be what my sensible side is telling me. I'm just trying to believe in the things she has actually said to me and not to overthink and read so much into the things that perturb me. She is a genuinely good soul and deserves my...
  10. Vashdaman

    The General Conversation Area

    Jesus that sounds tough, Serpantino. I hope you get settled soon and find something. What awful times these are.
  11. Vashdaman

    Relationships and Romance

    Hi people, these are tense and scary times right now. I'm sure we're all incredibly worried for our loved ones at the moment. But I do have a romantic pickle I'm in. There's this girl I've been talking to for many months, she's from and in Japan, we met on a language exchange website. From the...
  12. Vashdaman

    The General Conversation Area

    What's worse in my opinion is how they seemingly didn't bother testing or screening a single person who hopped off a plane from nothern Italy after it had already become a hotspot. Was it sheer laziness or lack of resources? I've still not seen that explained. But it's too late now anyway, it's...
  13. Vashdaman

    The General Conversation Area

    I hope all these big events do get cancelled to be honest. I know there seems to be a difference of opinion on how to handle this Corona crisis, but I can't help but think it's madly irresponsible to be having these huge crowded events when this virus is spreading like wildfire right now. Our...
  14. Vashdaman

    If I Could Reach You Volume 2 Review

    Nice review man!
  15. Vashdaman

    General Politics Thread

    Hilary Benn or Margaret Hodge? Oh please god no, not those idiots. That's just my opinion of course. I just disagree with you JPT that anyone who is selling the message and policies of Corbyn or anything like them will ever be "loved" by the mainstream press. It's a fantasy to think the press...
  16. Vashdaman

    General Politics Thread

    Yes, but you've just proven my point, none of that is real toxicity, it is media spun toxicity, and was exacerbated by centrists within the labour party who instead of challenging the false narrative agreed with it. He has talked with the IRA, and with other groups you may believe it is...
  17. Vashdaman

    General Politics Thread

    It really does bemuse me all this talk of Corbyn being so toxic apparently. I mean, it's obvious that a lot of people clearly consider him to be, but as ayase said earlier, what exactly that opinion is based on appears to be a mystery. Unless it's simply based on the media's baseless smears, and...
  18. Vashdaman

    General Politics Thread

    Jeremy Corbyn was truly too good for Britain, we clearly don't deserve him. Seeing all the centrists crawling out of the woodwork now and putting the boot in and blaming 'corbynism' is making my stomach churn. What a truly truly heartbreaking night. I really thought this time a change might...
  19. Vashdaman

    General Politics Thread

    Yeah I'm 100% voting Labour on Thursday. All these polls so far had better be wrong and I'm hoping the youth turn out to vote like never before and vote for JC.
  20. Vashdaman

    General Politics Thread

    I'm really torn about whether to vote tactically or not. My constituency in London has usually been a labour/ conservative marginal sort of seat, Labour lost here in 2017 but not by much at all. However, I saw some poll recently suggesting the Lib Dems have shot to popularity here lately (no...
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